shlevy

shlevy:

gruntledandhinged:

shlevy:

I’m about to enter the ~dating scene~ for the first time*! Any advice for finding folks not thrown off by the whole “happily married” thing? Are there, like, poly** clubs? Which dating sites are worth it?

* I’ve never consciously sought out relationships as such, all of my hs romances grew out of friendships, I met Alyssa at college orientation, and I was friends with Ozy for months before we started dating

** this is technically us “coming out” as poly (on tumblr where family won’t see it) but anyone paying attention probably already knew that

I like OKC but have actually never managed to finish filling out my profile. people don’t always pick up on the poly thing (my profile says I’m seeing someone but also available) so I tend to try to mention it at some point. Ummmmmmmm, hmmm. Yeah, honestly most of the relationships that have involved OKC from me have been ones that started elsewhere.

Yeah this has already kind of transformed from “let’s start dating!” to “let’s fill out fun online quizzes!” for me but maybe I’ll get lucky*.

*: heh

Yeaaaah, OKC has been great for my quiz impulses and getting strangers to send me psychology puns. 

shlevy

shlevy:

I’m about to enter the ~dating scene~ for the first time*! Any advice for finding folks not thrown off by the whole “happily married” thing? Are there, like, poly** clubs? Which dating sites are worth it?

* I’ve never consciously sought out relationships as such, all of my hs romances grew out of friendships, I met Alyssa at college orientation, and I was friends with Ozy for months before we started dating

** this is technically us “coming out” as poly (on tumblr where family won’t see it) but anyone paying attention probably already knew that

I like OKC but have actually never managed to finish filling out my profile. people don’t always pick up on the poly thing (my profile says I’m seeing someone but also available) so I tend to try to mention it at some point. Ummmmmmmm, hmmm. Yeah, honestly most of the relationships that have involved OKC from me have been ones that started elsewhere.

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blurintofocus:

transiences:andywooo:animeasuka:wafflesforstephanie:yosb:





welcome to harvard: linguistics 101

Is this reality?

Abso-fucking-lutely.

yo the word fucking is actually really interesting because it’s one of american english’s only infixes

YES THIS IS ACTUALLY REALLY COOL MY AP ENGLISH TEACHER WENT ON A 5-MINUTE RANT ABOUT “FUCK” AND HOW IT’S THE ONLY WORD YOU CAN INSERT INTO OTHER WORDS 
I JUST HAVE A LOT OF FEELINGS ABOUT THE WORD “FUCK” OKAY

AUTO
LINGUISTICS
RE
FUCKING
BLOG

blurintofocus:

transiences:andywooo:animeasuka:wafflesforstephanie:yosb:

welcome to harvard: linguistics 101

Is this reality?

Abso-fucking-lutely.

yo the word fucking is actually really interesting because it’s one of american english’s only infixes

YES THIS IS ACTUALLY REALLY COOL MY AP ENGLISH TEACHER WENT ON A 5-MINUTE RANT ABOUT “FUCK” AND HOW IT’S THE ONLY WORD YOU CAN INSERT INTO OTHER WORDS 

I JUST HAVE A LOT OF FEELINGS ABOUT THE WORD “FUCK” OKAY

AUTO

LINGUISTICS

RE

FUCKING

BLOG